This story is adapted from The Brave Athlete by Dr. Simon Marshall and Lesley Paterson. Their cutting-edge brain training guide solves the 13 most common mental conundrums athletes face in their everyday training and in races. With The Brave Athlete, you can solve these problems to become mentally strong and make your brain your most powerful asset.
For years coaches and athletes assumed that stress, anxiety, and pressure were best managed by strategies that sought to control or eradicate symptoms—banishing negative thoughts, exorcising doubt, and exuding nothing but positivity. In other words, we relied on an emotional suppression model of coping…
…It turns out that this is not only scientific nonsense but entirely unrealistic:
- It fails on a theoretical level because it attempts to squash the unsquashable. The human brain is hard-wired to shout and scream when threatened.
- It fails on a clinical level because it flies in the face of what we know works to help people manage anxiety.
- Finally, it fails on a practical level because we’ve not met a single person who is able to do it.
In The Brave Athlete, we present 12 ways for athletes to better handle stress, anxiety, and pressure using a combination of Jedi Professor skills (skills that strengthen your modern Professor brain to lessen the threat) and Chimp wrangling strategies (emotion-focused coping to lessen the impact of the mental freak out that comes from your ancient Chimp brain).
The 12 strategies described in the book are what we have found to be the most effective for helping all athletes (from newbies to Olympic champions) better cope with stress, anxiety, and pressure.
For this online example, we have chosen one Jedi professor skill and one Chimp wrangling strategy that we want you to commit to learning and practicing.
Jedi Professor Skill #6: Practicing under pressure
It should come as no surprise that stressful situations become less stressful the more you get used to them. Psychologists call this cue desensitization—the process by which you experience a lower emotional response to a stimulus after repeated exposure to it. It’s the reason that seasoned pros can still perform well in front of thousands of spectators, why public speaking becomes easier and easier, and, ahem, why it only feels kinky the first time you do it.
So stop avoiding things that scare you.
The goal is to seek out opportunities to experience pressure and confront it head-on. For example, entering a race precisely because the course doesn’t suit you or because you don’t feel prepared enough will help convince your tantrum-prone Chimp brain that it’s possible to survive pant crapping situations. In brain terms, you’re building synaptic strength for resilience.
Practicing under pressure requires that you artificially create pressure on yourself (which we like to call “pressure juice” in The Brave Athlete).
For athletes who race over short distances, this is relatively easy to do because your body and wallet can (usually) handle lots of racing. If you only race two or three times per year, this is harder to do. However, if there are certain elements of a race or event that contribute more to your personal pressure juice, look for opportunities to isolate and simulate those.
For example, the triathletes we coach for Braveheart Coaching will practice open water race-simulation entries and exits, complete with body contact, drafting, and mishaps. For faster or more experienced triathletes, we manufacture pressure with a handicap, such as being forced to swim with tennis balls in each hand. We typically end with drills in which the last athlete to cross the line on the beach is eliminated until there’s a lone survivor. Yeah, it’s pretty hard-core. But remember, your Chimp always knows when you’re sandbagging and only the real pressure juice will help you desensitize for the long term.
Whatever pressure looks like for you, find ways to recreate it so you can begin to stockpile experiences where things went okay (you lived) or even, gasp, you felt great.
You know what feels most stressful for you, so you’re the best person to come up with diabolical pressure situations. But here are a few opportunities that might inspire pressure juice:
- Riding in a pack: If riding in a tight pack of cyclists makes you nervous, seek it out. On the next big group ride, put yourself in the mix early on while giving yourself few opportunities to wimp out.
- Go head to head with a rival in training. That’s right, engineer the challenge. Run on their shoulder or set the pace. Battle it out.
- Race fatigued. Enter a 5K but put in a hard session the day before. Run on tired legs but don’t tell a soul. Pretend you’re feeling fresh and snappy and convince others that today is your day. Aim to stay on your target pace as though fresh.
- Find opportunities to embarrass yourself. That’s right. Find training or racing opportunities you feel thoroughly unprepared for. Find a short race you’re not trained for and enter it. This could be a 10K with a big field, a cyclocross race, or a splash & dash after work on virtually no training. Just get amped up to try for a good result. And whatever you do, start on the line, not tucked in safely at the back of the pack.
Chimp Wrangling Strategy #1: Chimp purging
Rather than telling your Chimp to shut the f*ck up (which won’t work since your Chimp brain is many times stronger than your Professor brain), this strategy requires that you do the exact opposite. You get things off your chest, except the chest belongs to your Chimp. Purging is rooted in mood induction and exposure therapy—therapeutic techniques that help reduce anxiety by increasing, not lessening, the exposure to a threat or negative emotion. In the context of Chimp purging, it’s far simpler because the act of disclosure is a cathartic release, otherwise known as venting. It’s like emptying the trash. Lesley and Simon chat about this idea:
The goal is to give your Chimp the microphone (or pen and paper) while you just sit there in the audience. Let out all the things that your Chimp is concerned about in one big go. After all, your Chimp needs to know that it’s been heard. This often results in worst-case-scenario bullsh*t: I’m going to come in last. I’m going to get pushed under by those big waves. A shark will eat me. People will think I’m a joke. I’m not a real athlete. Everyone is looking at my fat legs. I’m okay in local races, but I’ve got no business being here. Who the f*ck do I think I am?
Go on until your Chimp is exhausted. Allow up to 15 minutes of uninterrupted ranting and don’t stop until your time is up. This is really important. If your worry juice runs out, cycle back to the concerns that came out first. This forces you to experience frustration at not being able to generate any new Chimp talk, which further lessens its severity and impact.
Also, don’t let your Professor interrupt your Chimp with a commentary on how silly this exercise feels (This is stupid. How will this help?) or why it’s irrational to think this way (I know people don’t really think this about me, but I can’t stop worrying about . . .). Purging helps your amygdala back down, which in turn regulates your sympathetic nervous system. A tired Chimp is a more relaxed Chimp—and that’s good news for the anxious athlete.
Remember: there are 10 more skills in the pressure chapter of The Brave Athlete, so pick up your copy of the book for more ideas that might work even better for you. (Not to mention the 12 other chapters on topics from how to suffer better, how to stop quitting, how to build confidence, and more.)
The Brave Athlete solves the 13 most common mental conundrums athletes face in their everyday training and in races. Dr. Simon Marshall and Lesley Paterson will help you take control of your brain so you can train harder, race faster, and better enjoy your sport.